Aite…its been really a long time since I last blogged. Haf to say its been a busy month or so..Well Baby’s bday was just over. Kinda kept it low profile and simple..(but hope she liked it) Bought baby a mango cake minutes to midnight of her bday..Celebrated it just btw the both of us..Followed by a day at Sentosa..its been a really long time since I last visited Sentosa and its exhibits..I gotta say it was really a gd day out..(wish I had charged the camera though)*slap on the head*…however we did still manage to take some photos..which I believe baby would upload soon..thank god for phones with cameras these days..Most importantly I managed to bring the laughter and smiles I so wanted to see from Baby’s face…it was the most meaningful token of appreciation. Rather I shouldn’t be expecting anything in return…but I guess experiencing her enlightenment was heartfelt and unlike any other…great memories.

And so…life goes on.. Baby came across a couple of blogs which she shared with me…Most of it about guys who said bout being different from all the other guys..Come to think about it..those words that these pple claim has become such a cliché..It has been overused and under meant. Almost every guy starts using it these days (even I did) making those who really are different seem ordinary. So every guy becomes the different kinda same guy. How is it then are we able to blame the opposite sex for not believing in our words. When almost every guy that they meet claims to be “the one”, “the different one”…In the end the all end up to be the same type of guy..”the one that breaks the heart and leaves” Well of course there are girls with the capabilities to be heartbreakers as well..

Sinners are not born, they are bred. “Be not of evil, but overcome evil with good” goes the age old biblical quote. Guys can promise a lot of things, but its up to the girls to ever believe in their words. Some guys find take a harder and longer time to eventually convince the girl to be by their side. Some give up half way or even before the halfway point of trying to convince the other party. Sometimes we cannot blame the “receiver” of promises. For the “receiver” may have been taken in by the initial promises that were made and let the person making such promises get the best of them. In the end the “giver” leaves and the “receiver” is left wondering if it was ever worth making such and effort to let them in. The “receiver” is then in a mental stage of negativity and self protection, never willing to let anyone else to get the best of them. 1 mistake is gd enough a lesson to learn from. How do you eventually convince the other party to engage in a relationship with you then?Do we really think they can put themselves through another rollercoaster?what are the chances of the next relationship thriving? Can people actual keep on moving on after heartbreaking relationships?What are the chances that they dun get hurt again in that if they eventually do move on?Do they take a risk to step up or are they better of safe guarding themselves? ,Relationships will have to stand the test of time. Actions always speak louder than words. “no promises”, “just do it”. “words are only words”

True love lies in the determination and patience in trying to convince your partner that you are indeed the right one for them. “I Love You” another sentence that has also been overused these days. Do we actually mean it when we speak of such words. What is love anyway? Then what about Love at first sight? The only love that I am fully convinced about is the unconditional one. The one that is engraved in the hearts of most parents who painstakingly bring up their kids only to eventually to be chucked aside in an old folks home. Even then they will still love you.

Why can’t all of us (including me) put aside all of our ego and pride, give in to one another. Stop blaming one another for our own mistakes.

Yeah…right..if it was only that easy..there wouldn’t be a need for words at all..

Ciaoz..ghazali..